For a mouse the ergonomics of it trumps anything else.
If you like the feel of glossy go for it. Personally I do not, but that’s a personal
A good mouse will last me 3ish years, but probably starts showing wear like you describe before the end of the first. That said - ergonomics wins, and if I like the mouse I keep using it.
I kinda liked the feel of that Logitech rubberized stuff when it was new, but after just a short while, like 3 months, it would start to feel like snot then I couldn’t stand it. I wasted a lot of money on mice when that was popular.
My Corsair M65 had this coating the felt like Line-X truck bed spray - it was pretty rough on my pinky finger when it was brand new if I was on it for more than a couple of hours, but as it wore it actually got more comfortable to use and was one of my favorites.