Multiplayer to me means LAN parties, but no game even allows to make local servers anymore so even the idea of a LAN party becomes moot.
I simply don't like online multiplayer games at all. I find other players distracting and immersion breaking and playing with people I know is a scheduling nightmare of sending messages for 4 weeks back and forth, and then half the people not even show up at the scheduled time. And quite frankly I might not show up since how would I know if I'll be in the mood for a game at a specific time a month in the future?
No, give me single player story driven OFFLINE games that I can play at my own leisure at a moments notice.
All of this 100%.
I will say I have played a
scant few games online, and actually had fun with them, but that was for
very brief moments in time. Games like
CoD4 and
Hawken, and
Halo MCC's Firefight mode (which is PvE). Otherwise I'm basically 99% offline single-player when it comes to games, and have been my whole life. I don't like gaming online with strangers (which is why LANParties were so important to me for a large part of my life, and were still some of the most fun I have EVER had in my life), and trying to schedule online meetups with friends is a real pain in the @ss.
Also it's important to me to be able to have the ability to pause a game, cuz life happens. You can't pause games when you're playing online. But I take my video games like I take my movies and shows: at my own f*cking pace, and on my own schedule.
I used to have a crew where we did at least 16 LANParties between 2003 and 2016 (with as many as 3 in one year at times), and most of those were f*cking awesome. That kind of sh1t got harder and harder to do as we got older, some of the homeys got married (so even though they have their own places we
still can't do LANParties), hard to match up people's schedules, and honestly our bodies can't even take the abuse now. In my 20s I could game at a LANParty for 3 days with very little sleep, go home and sleep for 12-16 hours, and then be good. I would bounce right back. If I attempted to do the same thing now, I would probably die. Not to mention all the energy drinks like Vault and BAWLS we used to pump into our bodies, and all the pizza, subs, salty snacks, and sugary treats we scarfed down. No, I think that would be a death sentence today.
Sometimes we still do local PC multiplayer though. Like I'll go a friend's house and use one of his spare PCs to play a game with him. Or for example one time when my brother came to visit from the other side of the continent, he and I both used our own PCs to do some
Halo MCC campaign co-op over LAN (we had to be in offline mode anyways cuz we were both using my copy of the game).