so thinking about it It tried to get my son into computer IT stuff. He just never got into it at all. I should have made him want it and just disassembled the first PC I got him and had him put it together and make it work. That was my mistake I think. I kept the magic in the box and didn't let him discover it himself.
I have struggled a little with this too.
I started the kiddo too early. I built him a basic PC from spare parts I had laying around when he was 6 because he was really interested in NES emulation and Minecraft.
I - of course - wasn't expecting him to actually build it himself at that age, but I thought it would be a positive if he got exposed to seeing it early.
Get 'em hooked on PC parts and they'll never be able to afford drugs
He was excited and watched for about a half an hour but the young kid timer eventually ran out and I finished it on my own.
After that, I have involved him in every upgrade to his machine, but it hasn't been until more recently (age 15-16) where he has taken a more active interest in the process.
We recently did a drop in upgrade of an 5800x3D and faster (DDR4-3600) RAM in his old MSI B350 Tomahawk for his 16th birthday and he was interested in not just watching but going hands on and actually installing stuff.
(Can I just say that the MSI B350 Tomahawk was one hell of a motherboard. Cheap when it was new, and still relevant today. Sure you don't get Gen4 PCIe but you dont really need it, and in every other regard it just keeps kicking ***. One of the best PC part purchases I've made in a very long time. It started with a Ryzen 5 1600x in 2016. At some point it got a Ryzen 7 3800xt and now a 5800x3D as a last huzzah for the platform)
So we are getting there. I'll admit, I have made his life much easier in this regard than I had it when I was a kid. I went from obsolete PC to obsolete PC scrounging for used upgrade parts when I was a kid. I had an 8Mhz 286 in 1991 (the year the 486 was released) and did a drop in motherboard upgrade to the slowest 486 (sx25) in 1994 (a year after the Pentium was launched)
I'll totally admit I am spoiling this kid a bit. But at the same time, this hobby is way more expensive than it used to be. Especially since back then everything was local. You could have a 2 generation old PC and swap floppies playing older games with friends who also had obsolete PC's. There wasn't the constant Internet reminder of the latest games and hardware, and the need to be able to play them or be unable to play with your friends online.
So I bounce back and forth between not wanting to spoil him, and not wanting to let his computer get old enough that he gets discouraged.
This Xmas the plan was to gift him a GPU upgrade. He has an RTX 2060 Super which is starting to show its age and hold him back in multiplayer games. But ****. Those GPU's are way more expensive than they used to be even now. I was thinking a 4060ti was appropriate but two things are giving me second thoughts. One is that it is only x8. Coupled with that his motherboard is only gen3, I am a little concerned. 8x Gen4 is certainly fine, but 8x Gen3 is tight, especially if the VRAM runs out and it starts swapping to system RAM.
Second is that 8GB VRAM issue. 8GB is tight in 2023, and this GPU is going to have to last a while, especially considering how pricy they now are. You can get a 16GB 4060ti, but it is priced stupidly. Like, you might as well buy a 4070.
So that's where I was, leaning towards the cheapest 4070 I can find, but even the $529 that wound up being is one hell of a large ticket kid spoiling gift. Like, I can easily afford it. That's not the issue, but I worry about spoiling the kid.
So that's where I am stuck right now. $529 is not a big deal to me. Heck, in post inflation greater Boston, that's only two dinners out for my wife and I.
I really don't want to spoil him too much though.
I think the current plan is to wait for the SUPER upgrades that are rumored to be coming in January. We plan on traveling this holiday anyway, so I'll give him a GPU Update IOU for Xmas and we will see what happens to pricing and availability after the SUPER launch.