Zarathustra
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Did you assume xir's gender, or did Destructoid?
Look, if someone specifically requests non-traditional pronouns, I'd be happy to oblige. I might slip up on occasion, but I'll do my best to address them the way they request. It is the decent thing to do.
Short of a specific request though, I am always going to default to traditional cis-gendered pronouns.
We live in a cis-normative world, and that will never change, because as popular as the gender-bending narrative is in the media these days, non-cis gendered people are a distinct minority. We cant be expected to address everyone as "they" until being informed of their preference just because it may not apply to a small minority of people.
If someone looks like they have an X and a Y chromosome, I am going to default to "he", if someone looks like they have two X chromosomes I am going to default to "she", and if anyone has a problem with that, they can **** right off.
The only time anyone should be criticized for their use of pronouns is if they have been informed that someone desires a different use of pronouns and they proceed to repeatedly and intentionally disregard that request. That is inappropriate and insulting. But th enon-binary crowd also needs to understand that mistakes will happen as this is not intuitive to a large majority of earths population. If someone tries and fails on occasion, they shouldn't be ostracized for it.
...and even if someone reqests alternate pronouns, not all requests need to be obliged by. There are three choices. He, she or they. Pick one. If they start making **** up and what to be called "zhe" or "tractor" or some other nonsense then it should be acceptable to disregard that stupid request. This is not a game of "let's get creative."
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